Pretend it wasn’t you! I am sure you have all seen the words, Keep Calm, on a poster, flyer, T-shirt, or elsewhere. I especially like the sub-title above: pretend it wasn’t you! Ah, so easy to be calm when life is great, but not when things are crazy around you. I laughed out loud when I read these words, “Never in the history of calming down has anyone calmed down by being told to calm down.” Isn’t that a fact! How many times have you said or heard someone say in the heat of